beftong:

10-31-1958

Belgium

I just can&#39;thelp it: I adore women, and want to choose one to love<br>I don&#39;t look for any woman like only a woman: those you can find by dozens in the red districts... Whom I search for is a lady woman to build a closed relation together. That isn&#39;t possible in the way of only fysical sex strictu senso.Giving oneself nude to another aswel fysical as mentally is very difficult!Fysically it isn&#39;t but mentally it is very hard...<br>It also means that IN the relatiion everything must be possible, as long as BOTH partners experience it as pleasant. Our society is taking for real what the sexindustrie, and the other media presents as being &quot;reality&quot;. The number of divorcions is prooving that. Perhaps we better should take the time to think about ?relations?.<br> 1./Due to the degree of difficulty of living together, it is almost a must to be monogameous.<br> 2./Due to Darwin&#39;s law, it is a must to be hetero.<br> 3./Following an old Chinese proverb (you will find the well up the stream) we must have the courage to search to go into society, without being punished by that same society.<br> Lying transvers to the current stream, makes the stream take us down even faster!<br>To end: if we want to build a good relation we should look better patiently to a monogameous hetero partner, who has the nerves to give him/her mentally and psychiological nude as well as psychical.... in and evenworthy position as the other partner<br><br>mentally and psychiological give yourself nude as well as psychical, how doed one manage that? By communication! That&#39;s the reason why language is so crucial! Not only verbal, but also non-verbal. Take bndy-language as an example, maar but also our behaviour gedrag. P.e. the smell..<br>In a relation is the factor seduction, being seduced, letting someone seduce... very important!!<br>Even more than orgase. <br><br>Followinging my perceptions are the best relations, those where both partners de ?sexuality?<br>(the fact of being a man or a woman)appreciates 100% one from another and vice versa....<p><b>Ma personne id?ale :</b><br>a woman that likes surprises in every sence of the word</p>